The establishment of confidence
When we are confronting
challenges in our life, it is critical for us to be confidence. Because the
psychological robust will definitely assist us on taking the challenge. It is
quite straight-forward, since there will be no way for us to success if we do not
even believe it ourselves. However, sometimes it is difficult for us to
establish that confidence due to our personal matters, such as fear of
humiliation, shyness or anti-social character. So I would like to provide
several useful techniques to help university students like me to develop
self-confidence in our lives.
The first thing first, is
that we need to step out from the dilemma generated by ourselves. It is genuine
that most of us will be bashful if we fail in front of others, but we must not be
afraid to take the first step. We will realize everything becomes smooth and
easier after we actually step out. In my opinion, to answer questions actively
in lectures and tutorials is a perfect opportunity for us to establish our
confidence. The reason behind it is a public event, which involves many
attenders, hence answering the questions is another form of making presentation
towards the public. It will enormously encourage us to show more confidence,
because we feel that we are guiding the flow of the education progress. With my
perspective, people who are lacked of confidence due to the fear of losing
control over the surroundings. Therefore, this process will help us to regain
the feel of control, and we will certainly enjoy the experience of riding the
tide. In order achieve the maximum effectiveness, it is important for us to
preview and review the unit. Consequently, we will respond quickly to the
questions, and the process of answering will also consolidate our knowledge of
the subject. Moreover, we will be able to make more friends according to our
vigorously participation. As a matter of fact, no one will waste time on those
who show no value to them. Thereby the presentation of our endeavor and
intelligence obviously will help us to make new friends. It is worth mentioning
that when we are socializing with other people, we may try to direct the stream
of discussion and be the leader of the group. Leadership is another fantastic
source of self-recognition and confidence. Nevertheless, we need to work hard
to prepare a solid foundation of the leader program. Otherwise, people will not
follow a person has no strong suit.
In conclusion, the first
step of the whole confidence-establishing program is the hardest. Once we made
it, we will figure out there is noting to be afraid of, nothing to be
embarrassed of and nothing can be the impediment on the way to success.
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